The Common Cause Of A Woman’s Low Sex Drive
There are usually no causes which could lead a woman to have a low sex drive. There are some things which most women do to their man to make them happy but those things are such small things that it does not constitute as a low sex drive. Most women feel overworked, underappreciated, patronized, and unfortunately too often have sex as a routine which they perform, thinking that it is absolutely alright to do so. Such a woman does not even know her own body and does not understand the way her own body function. If you think about what is an extreme case, that is, a case where a woman does not know her own body, how can you even begin to be familiar with your own body. How can you begin to explore your own body because you do not even know where to begin?
Another thing which probably causes a woman’s low sex drive is the fear of pregnancy; the common problem here is that the woman might be afraid that she might become pregnant. If this is the case, she might be too scared to even think of sex because of the fear of pregnancy. What this means is that she will not be able to relax enough to be able to explore her own body. When a woman is afraid of becoming pregnant, this can create mental blockages and make it extremely difficult for her to relax enough to explore her own body. This pregnancy condition can cause women to become emotionally isolated with themselves and they might even shut down a lot of the intimacy in their relationship. Therefore, the common advice given to a woman who knows she is pregnant for fear of pregnancy is to abstain from sex. We know that this is the wrong advice. Having sex is healthy and is a good way to reconnect with your partner, strengthening your relationship.
The advice should instead go like this: choose to have sex in the second trimester, the third trimester or even the fourth trimester. You need to be in the right mental state in order to be able to experience an intense sexual experience. If you are not in the right mental state, having sex in hopes of pregnancy is not the solution you need. Also, make sure that you are not too tired to even think about having sex. It is important to know that sex is not the only way to be intimate with your partner. S conversing with your partner about sex and having sex in other ways is also important.
Finally, if you are not in the right physical state, having sex can cause you to have less orgasms. For female, having an orgasm is mostly achieved by the stimulation of the clitoris. The clitoris is also the only part of the female anatomy that is covered by a thick layer of nerve ending. This makes it the most sensitive part of the female body. Any stimulation of the clitoris, even if it is a technique used to arouse your partner, will not be as pleasurable as it will be in a state of arousal.
Mental and physical barriers can also affect the ability to have orgasms. This is very common in women who just went through surgery for example. There are also changes in the body as a woman ages which affect the way she perceives pleasure and the way she gets turned on.
All this said, the right approach to having sex should be learned. Adult education classes should teach the option of foreplay as well as the different sexual positions possible. Talking about orgasms can also be part of the class. Discussing which position you would like to try out during sex is also part of the whole session. Taking your partner’s scent away is also part of the arousal process.
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